I am 72 miles from my office--two hours each way four days each week. It used to be two days each week, but my boss and my job changed while I was in Iraq. I love my job and even if didn't, I would not want to turn my back on a good job in a bad economy.
But if we do adopt two more boys in the next six months, we will have four teenage sons this time next year. If that happens, the 85/15 split my wife and I have on who is responsible for child care could get even worse. I will have to figure a way to work less.
Just thinking out loud now, but the decision will be facing us if the adoptions go through.